love psychology/love diagnosis/love truth

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Your Future Lover Might Be Right Next to You?!

Perhaps, somewhere in this world, maybe on the other side of the globe, an unseen lover might be waiting for you…. Unfortunately, for those who hold onto this romantic dream, there's a fact that might shatter it.

The probability of a man and a woman meeting and getting married is related to spatial distance. The closer the distance between two people, the higher the probability of them getting together, and the further apart they are, the lower the probability becomes. This is a conclusion derived by an American sociologist who examined thousands of marriage certificates, and it's called Boazard's Law, named after the scholar.

The closer the spatial distance, the more opportunities people have to get to know each other. In apartment complexes, residents are more likely to become acquainted with those in the same building than those in separate buildings. Even within the same building, families living next door are more likely to become close than families living on opposite ends. The same applies to relationships between men and women. First, adolescents fall in love with boys and girls who live in the same town. As they start commuting to schools and workplaces further from home, they begin dating people they meet there.

Cupid's arrow only flies a short distance!

It seems your future lover isn't somewhere far away you don't know. If you want a lover, take a look around you. Could your potential lover be within your daily life?

If you want to find a lover or a marriage partner, it means the probability is higher if you look for them within your daily life.

Let's look for a good person among your former classmates and local friends, their siblings and friends, colleagues and seniors/juniors at your workplace, and people you meet at the shops you frequent and places related to your life.

A psychologist once said, "Cupid's arrow only flies the shortest distance." It seems the god of love, Cupid, isn't very good at archery.